Good conversation is where connection starts. Bi Desires gives you a place to chat with people who already understand bisexual attraction, so you can skip the explanations and get to know each other.
How Chatting Works
- Create a free profile. Say who you are and what you're looking for, as much or as little as you like.
- Browse and discover. Look through member profiles and your activity feed to find people you'd like to talk to.
- Send a message. Start a private conversation with someone whose profile caught your eye.
- Take it at your pace. Keep chatting, take a break, or move on. You're in control.
It all works in your mobile or desktop browser, so there's no app to download and nothing extra on your home screen.
Who You'll Meet
Bi Desires welcomes bisexual, bi-curious, pansexual, queer and questioning people of all genders. Whether you want friendship, flirting, romance or just someone to talk to about your experiences, you can say so from the start.
Tips For Great First Messages
- Read their profile. Mention something specific, which shows you've paid attention.
- Be yourself. A friendly, honest message beats a copied line.
- Ask an open question. It gives them an easy way to reply.
- Be clear and respectful. Say what you're looking for, and accept a "no thanks" gracefully.
- Don't rush. Good conversations build gradually.
Chat Safely
- Don't share financial details, and never send money or gift cards to someone you've met online.
- Keep early conversations on the site.
- If someone makes you uncomfortable, stop replying and block or report them.
- If you decide to meet, choose a public place and tell a friend where you're going.
New To Bisexual Dating?
If you're still working out how you feel, you're welcome here too. Our guides on what bi-curious means and whether you might be bisexual can help. When you're ready to meet people, explore our bisexual dating community.