Couples come to bisexual communities for many reasons. Maybe one or both of you are bi, maybe you want to meet friends who understand, or maybe you're open to meeting someone new together. Whatever it is, honesty and consent make it work.
Who This Is For
- Bi couples where one or both partners are bisexual and want a community that gets it.
- Couples looking for friends who share their outlook, and who are open-minded about identity.
- Couples open to meeting others who have discussed it, agreed on boundaries, and want to meet people respectfully.
Start With Honest Conversation
Before you meet anyone, talk with each other. Be clear about why you're here and what each of you would be comfortable with. The best experiences come from couples who've agreed things in advance and are both enthusiastic, not one partner going along with the other.
Questions to talk through together:
- What are we each hoping for, and what are we not looking for?
- What are our hard limits, and what would make either of us uncomfortable?
- How will we handle jealousy or second thoughts, and who can pause things?
- How will we communicate with each other when we meet someone?
Being A Good Guest In The Community
If you're a couple meeting a single person, remember that they're an equal person with their own needs, not an accessory to your relationship. Treat them with kindness and respect, be upfront about how you're approaching things, and don't pressure anyone. Being clear and considerate makes you far more welcome.
Tips For A Couples Profile
- Be clear that you're a couple, and who's on the profile.
- Say what you're looking for: friendship, connection, or something more.
- Be honest about your boundaries.
- Keep personal details private until you trust people.
Meet And Chat Safely
You choose what to share, and you can take things as slowly as you like. Start with conversation, keep early chats on the site, and if you decide to meet, choose a public place and tell a friend where you're going. Our bisexual chat page explains how messaging works.
Curious about the community? Read about what bisexual means, or visit our bisexual dating page to see how it works.