Bisexual Visibility Day, also known as Celebrate Bisexuality Day, is observed every year on September 23. It's a day to recognize bisexual people, celebrate bi culture and history, and challenge the invisibility that many bi people experience.
Why Visibility Matters
Bisexual people are often overlooked or misunderstood. Assumptions that bisexuality is "a phase", or that someone's orientation changes with their partner, can make it hard to feel seen. A day devoted to visibility is a chance to say plainly that bisexual people exist, belong, and matter.
Where It Came From
The day was first marked in 1999. It was started by three bisexual activists: Wendy Curry, Michael Page and Gigi Raven Wilbur. Michael Page is also the designer of the bisexual pride flag. Since then, bi communities and allies around the world have observed it every September.
Ways To Mark The Day
- Learn. Read about what bisexual means and how it relates to other identities.
- Show it. Wear the colors, add the flag to your profile, or share something that matters to you.
- Listen. Hear bisexual people's own experiences, and take them at their word.
- Connect. Join a community event, meetup or online space for bi people.
- Support. If you're an ally, challenge stereotypes when you hear them, and make space for bi friends and family.
Not Out? That's Okay
Visibility is something each person decides for themselves. If it isn't safe or comfortable to be open, there's no obligation to be. You can still feel connected to the community, learn, and find people who understand, privately and at your own pace.
If you'd like to meet other bisexual, bi-curious and pansexual people, our bisexual dating community is free to join, and you control what you share.